Arts & Culture

It’s Getting Hot in Here

Our Annual Roundup of the Area’s Sizzling Singles

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JENNIFER STEARMAN , 30

Single, no kids, Financial Services Attorney, McGuireWoods LLP

Favorite book? The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein Favorite musician or group? Lenny Kravitz Favorite movie? The Shawshank RedemptionCelebrity lookalike? I ve been told I resemble Alanis Morissette.Celebrity dream date? Harry Connick Jr. If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Jack Welch, Colin Powell, Cal Ripken Jr. What job would you like to have for a day? Professional traveler, philanthropist, race car driver, rock star, astronaut . . .People who sign prenuptial agreements are Planning strategi­cally, but hopelessly unromantic.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? “Why don’t you change into something a little less comfortable?” What’s your favorite way to kill time? Driving with the top down, destination unknown. What’s your favorite word? Utopia Who are better drivers, men or women? There is probably a reason why men pay higher insurance premiums than women.Do you believe in love at first sight? I believe in infatuation at first sight. What’s your worst quality? I’m a workaholic.What’s your best quality? I’m versatile.

CASEY BANE , 26

Single, no kids, full­time student (obtaining Masters in Teaching)

Favorite book? The Great Gatsby Favorite musician or group? The BeatlesFavorite movie? The Sound of Music Celebrity lookalike? Jodie FosterCelebrity dream date? Vince VaughnIf you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?Rudy Giuliani, Caroline Kennedy, and Tom HanksWhat job would you like to have for a day? PhilanthropistIf you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Make sure my family was taken care of. Then I would travel.

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says: “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? “Thanks. Sorry I can’t say the same.”People who sign prenuptial agreements are Preoccupied with money and not love.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Play backgammonIf you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be?Dazed and Confused What’s your worst quality? I procrastinateWhat’s your best quality? My loyalty.

COLLEEN BERGIN , 30

Single, no kids, Human Resources Software Consultant

Favorite book? Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier Favorite movie? When Harry Met SallyCelebrity lookalike? I’ve been told a young Ali McGraw.Celebrity dream date? Ed Harris If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Dinner at Da Mimmo with Ben Stiller, Secre­tary of Defense Donald H. Rumsfeld, and Sting.What job would you like to have for a day? Professor of Phi­

losophy at a small liberal arts university.People who sign prenuptial agreements are Not living for the moment and are not risk­takers in the relationship arena. Who are better drivers, men or women? Neither. Daring, athletic people who visually learn do best on the highway.If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Grew up expecting Some Kind of Wonderful but probably have ended up with something more like Sliding Doors. What’s your worst quality? In pursuit of success, I can often be self­critical and not very forgiving of myself. What’s your best quality? I’m a good friend in fun times and in times where one needs support.

DAVE BRIGHT , 31

Single, no kids, Physician Resident, Internal Medicine

Favorite book? Patriot Games by Tom Clancy Favorite group? U2 Favorite movie?Austin Powers in Goldmember Celebrity lookalike? Some would say Dean Cain?Celebrity dream date? Cameron Diaz . . . she is stunning and seemingly very down­to­earth and fun. What job would you like to have for a day? Always want­ed to drive a snowplow—sounds crazy, but it’s true!

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?

Approached a beach underwater with flowers inside a water­proof bag. She was very surprised!

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? Smile and blow her a kiss.Do you believe in love at first sight? Absolutely. There is nothing more amazing than looking into someone’s eyes for the first time and feeling that you’ve always known them. What is your worst quality? I drink way too much coffee!!What is your best quality? I am exceedingly kind.

JASON BUNGORI , 22

Single, no kids, student, Villa Julie College

Favorite book? Native Son by Richard Wright Favorite movie? Braveheart Celebrity lookalike? I’m not sure, but I’ve been told I look like Tom Cruise or Kevin Richardson from the Back­street Boys. [Editor’s note: We think he’s a younger— and cuter—version of Jeff Probst from Survivor.]Celebrity dream date? Keri RussellWhat’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?Drove seven hours in a blinding blizzard through upstate New York. People who sign prenuptial agreements are Not going to be married any length of time.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Take them out to a very dark place and enjoy ourselves. What’s your favorite word? Chillin’ Do you believe in love at first sight?No. How can you love someone when you don’t even know them?When is the last time you cried? Johnny Unitas’s tribute at the Ravens game.What’s in the trunk of your car? It’s more like a suitcase . . . clothes. I’m always on the go.

VIC CHESWICK JR., 37

Single, no kids, Real Estate Executive

Favorite book? The Prince of Tides by Pat Conroy Favorite musician or group?Too many—Carly Simon to Guns N’ Roses. Favorite movie? Shawshank RedemptionCelebrity lookalike? No idea. [Editor’s suggestion: Maybe George Stephanopoulos?]Celebrity dream date? Fran Drescher What job would you like to have for a day?Playing guitar for

Van Halen

If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Panic! I’ve always said, I’d

never want to win.

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? “You’ve got good taste.”What’s your favorite way to kill time? NY Times CrosswordWhat’s your favorite word? I don’t think you can print it. Who are better drivers—men or women? Neither. Both are equally dangerous.Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes When is the last time you cried?What time is it? What’s your worst quality? I run two to 12 minutes late (usually).What’s your best quality? I’m a good listener.

Single, no kids, News Director, WBAL­TV 11 News

Favorite book? Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë Favorite musician or group? Billy Joel. Old stuff. And then there’s Vivaldi. Favorite movie? MoonstruckCelebrity lookalike? I flew back from vacation yesterday and a guy on the plane told me he was convinced I was Fergie. Interesting.

What job would you like to have for a day? That’s easy: Rock StarWhat’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? It involved a red­eye from Los Angeles to Baltimore and clam shooters at the Cross Street Market at 8 a.m.If you won the lottery what’s the first thing you would do? Buy my parents their dream home in Stone Harbor, NJ.People who sign prenuptial agreements are Doing what they feel is necessary to protect themselves. Being the diehard romantic that I am, I pray I’ll never have to consider signing one.Who are better drivers, men or women? It has nothing to do with men or women. It’s all about personality. Nervous people make scary drivers. Confident people are more in control behind the wheel. It’s not rocket science. If you asked me who’s better at parallel parking, I’d have a different answer!

LAURA LEE DILLON , 43

Divorced; two kids, Lauren Michael Dillon, 18, Matthew Lee Dillon, 11; Hair Designer and Freelance Photographer

Favorite book? The medical dictionary Favorite movie? Mrs. DoubtfireCelebrity lookalike? Nancy, from thirtysomething (Patricia Wet­tig). I was once asked to appear on Geraldo as her lookalike. Celebrity dream date? Bob Barker—old, I know, but distin­guished. Or George Clooney.What job would you like to have for a day? Be a surgeon and

operate to save a life or deliver a child.If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Buy a golf course and help the needy. People who sign prenuptial agreements are Rightfully cautious.Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? No way. I have one—it says “Masters” (as in the golf tournament).

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Appreciate her for who she is, not for what she’s wearing. (OK, if it’s that bad, I’d change it.)Who are better drivers, men or women? Older men and younger women.

PAULA FINKELSTEIN , 27

Single, no kids, Marketing/Communications for a financial services company

Favorite book? To Kill a Mockingbird Favorite musician or group? REM Favorite movie? Shawshank Redemption and Swingers, depending on my mood.Celebrity lookalike? Sandra Bullock Celebrity dream date? Andrew McCarthy What job would you like to have for a day? Host of TV’s

Trading SpacesPeople who sign prenuptial agreements are Probably wealthier than I am. Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? Depends how long his name is. A few minutes of pain is doable, but a few hours is more than I can take.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Driving around with the windows down, sun­roof open, blaring ’80s one­hit wonders Who are better drivers, men or women? Women, because they’ll ask for directions.Do you believe in love at first sight? I’ll let you know. What’s your best quality? I was voted “most honest” in the 4th grade by my entire elementary school. Do you think that still counts today?

DAVID DOHERTY , 33

Single, High School Music Teacher/Source of amusement for students not used to English accents

Favorite book? Dating for Dummies; Dating for Complete Morons; How to Be a Better Boyfriend (gift). Favorite musician or group? J.S. Bach (he wrote all that great music and had twenty kids). Celebrity lookalike?Brad Pitt with brown hair and eyes, no dim­ples, a bigger nose, and a differently shaped face. Also, instead of the six pack, I’m working on the whole keg.

Celebrity dream date? Renee Zellweger in Bridget Jones’s Diary (though not in that bunny outfit). What job would you like to have for a day?International man of mystery Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? Nope. I would hope that I could remember her name.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Feel that I’m in good company.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Cleaning the oven.What’s your favorite word? Freebeer. Do you believe in love at first sight?Only if I saw her first? What’s in the trunk of your car?Unimaginable horrors/decaying gym attire.

Divorced, no kids, Instructor/Public Health Professional/ Community Health Nurse

Favorite book? Succulent Wild Woman by SarkFavorite musician or group? A local swing dance band, Jacques Johnson Band Favorite movie? Life is BeautifulCelebrity lookalike? I have been told Mia Farrow or Meg Ryan, but I’m not the best judge. What job would you like to have for a day? Fashion designer or an international journalistPeople who sign prenuptial agreements are In this day and age, probably wise. How­ever, I once heard that this was an act of not trusting the other. I think it sets barriers to a healthy, trusting relationship.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? “Can I help you with that?” Being a fashion consul­tant for many friends over the years has been one of my most favorite creative outlets.When is the last time you cried? Yesterday. Crying is good. What’s in the trunk of your car? Dance shoes—several different pairs—and hiking boots.

SUSAN GABRIEL , 51

Divorced; two kids, Amy, 27; Marc, 24; Assistant professor, English Department, CCBC—Essex

Favorite book? An extremely difficult question for an English teacher! How can I possibly choose a favorite book? Read­ing is a major passion in my life. I love so many of the literary masterpieces, such as Pride and Prejudice orThe House of Mirth. I do, however, take a guilty pleasure in my true pas­sion in books: mysteries. My favorite authors at the moment are Peter Robinson and Elizabeth George.If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Before I let my practical nature take over, I’d take my closest friends and favorite family members on a first­class, no­limits trip. Given the nature of these friends and family members, a pub crawl through London might be just the ticket. What’s your favorite word? I should probably choose some impressive word like “pugilistic,” but I think my favorite word is “whatever.” I like its tone of cynicism and sarcasm, mixed with a sense of acceptance and possibility. A very “deep” word. Who are better drivers, men or women? Please! On the beltway, there are no good drivers!If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? On a whole, my dating life would beThe Good, the Bad, and the Ugly; often it’sThe Crying Game; but in the end it’s Much Ado About Nothing. What’s in the trunk of your car? The usual junk, plus one of those canvas chairs which fold up to fit into a carrying bag. Its best feature is the built­in cup­holder on the arm. You never know when you might run across a tailgate party.

JAMIE R. GELLER , 25

Single, no kids, Advertising Account Planner

Favorite book? The Little Engine That Could—timeless message (but don’t fret, my reading level does go beyond first grade!)Favorite musician or group? Janet Jackson. Such a per­former and a somewhat normal member of an anything but normal family!Favorite movie? Kissing Jessica Stein—the wittiest, most creative movie I’ve seen in a very long time. Celebrity lookalike? Renee ZellewegerCelebrity dream date: All of these new young hunks out there but I’m still a sucker for Tom Cruise. What job would you like to have for a day? Soap opera actress—I crave the drama!If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Run around dancing like a Mexican jumping bean screaming my lungs out to anyone who would listen!

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? “Accidentally” throw a glass of punch on her and after apologizing profusely, give her something cute to change into!Who are better drivers, men or women? Anyone but me!If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Reality BitesWhat’s in the trunk of your car? Two words—”oy vey”!What’s your worst quality? I am too honest for my own good.

Favorite book? At the moment (it changes from time to time), The Wild Ass’s Skin by Honore de Balzac Favorite musician or group? Bela Fleck and the FlecktonesFavorite movie? Groundhog Day Celebrity lookalike? Geraldo RiveraCelebrity dream date? I don’t dream about dating celebrities, but since you asked, Penelope Cruz

If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?The Dalai Lama, Elie Weisel, and Tony Robbins (preferably at sepa­rate dinners)

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Get married

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction?I, of course, would first smile, and then if I was interested in meeting the discerning woman who made the remark, I would stop her and continue the conversation People who sign prenuptial agreements are More pragmatic than romantic.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Undress her, of course.What’s your favorite word? PASSION! Who are better drivers—men or women?Men. It is one of the few ways men are generally superior to womenWhat’s in the trunk of your car? Clean, empty space What’s your worst quality?I can be judgmental What’s your best quality? My integrity

Favorite musician or group? U2 Favorite movie? Remember the TitansCelebrity lookalike? Helen Hunt or Lelee Sobieski Celebrity dream date? Vin DieselWhat job would you like to have for a day? Brooke Burke, E!’s Wild On Travel Guide

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says: “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reac­tion? Thanks! They’re real!What’s your favorite way to kill time? I’m usually in the gym, riding my bike, hanging out with friends, or sleeping.What’s your favorite word? FridayWho are better drivers, men or women? I haven’t noticed. I’m always on my cell phone!

If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? It’s actually more like the TV show Freaks and Geeks.Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes! (or should I walk by again?)When is the last time you cried? When I won Enrique Iglesias tickets on the radio! I was laughing so hard I was crying!What’s your worst quality? I am quick to trust. What’s your best quality? Fun­loving and spontaneous

RHEA FEIKEN, AGELESS. WIDOW, TWO KIDS

Favorite book? Enduring Love by Ian McEwan. Love the title, subject, and writing.Favorite musician or group? Keith Jarrett Favorite movie? Swept Away (the original!)Celebrity lookalike? Meg Ryan’s mother Celebrity dream date? Jeremy Irons If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?

Dolly Parton, Bill Clinton, and Susan Sarandon What job would you like to have for a day? Give out the MacArthur “Genius” Award What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Mar­ried—two timesIf you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Rent a house in Venice and invite friends

People who sign prenuptial agreements are Desperate. You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? I would never have that kind of friend

If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be?

Home Alone Who are better drivers, men or women? Women. The car’s not an extension of a body part!When is the last time you cried? Trying to fill out this questionnaire

NOLA DOBRATZ , 23

Single, no kids, Marketing Director


Favorite musician or group? U2 Favorite movie? Remember the TitansCelebrity lookalike? Helen Hunt or Lelee Sobieski Celebrity dream date? Vin DieselWhat job would you like to have for a day? Brooke Burke, E!’s Wild On Travel Guide

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says: “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reac­tion? Thanks! They’re real!What’s your favorite way to kill time? I’m usually in the gym, riding my bike, hanging out with friends, or sleeping.What’s your favorite word? FridayWho are better drivers, men or women? I haven’t noticed. I’m always on my cell phone!

If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? It’s actually more like the TV show Freaks and Geeks.Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes! (or should I walk by again?)When is the last time you cried? When I won Enrique Iglesias tickets on the radio! I was laughing so hard I was crying!What’s your worst quality? I am quick to trust. What’s your best quality? Fun­loving and spontaneous

Black V­neck graffiti t­shirt ($58) by Glima at Wilmington Country Store. Jean jacket with dyed raccoon col­lar ($295) at Mano Swartz. Boot cut jeans ($203) by Sky and black fringe belt ($80) at Octavia. Sterling silver choker ($1,200), matching bracelet ($650), and sterling and 14k gold cit­rine ring ($720), all by David Yurman at Radcliffe Jewelers


Favorite book? At the moment (it changes from time to time), The Wild Ass’s Skin by Honore de Balzac Favorite musician or group? Bela Fleck and the FlecktonesFavorite movie? Groundhog Day Celebrity lookalike? Geraldo RiveraCelebrity dream date? I don’t dream about dating celebrities, but since you asked, Penelope Cruz

If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?The Dalai Lama, Elie Weisel, and Tony Robbins (preferably at sepa­rate dinners)

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?

Get married

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? I, of course, would first smile,

and then if I was interested in meeting the discerning woman who made the remark, I would stop her and continue the conversation People who sign prenuptial agreements are More pragmatic than romantic.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Undress her, of course.What’s your favorite word? PASSION! Who are better drivers—men or women?Men. It is one of the few ways men are generally superior to womenWhat’s in the trunk of your car? Clean, empty space What’s your worst quality?I can be judgmental What’s your best quality? My integrity

ROSA GARGANO , 24

Single, no kids, Co­owner, Rocco’s Capriccio Restaurant

Favorite musician or group? Madonna Favorite movie? Murder in the FirstCelebrity lookalike? Isabella Rossellini Celebrity dream date? Oscar de la HoyaIf you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Chris Kattan, Rudy Giuliani, Con­doleezza Rice

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Hmmm, I think I’d rather keep those skeletons in my closet

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Laugh hysterically, and then put on a hideous outfit as well.

Who are better drivers, men or women? Women, women, women

If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Mission Impossible Do you believe in love at first sight? No. Unless . . . well, never mind. No. What’s in the trunk of your car? What’s not in the trunk of my car?! What’s your worst quality? My Italian temperWhat’s your best quality? The ability to make the best of any situation.

AMY FREDERICK , 29

Single, no kids, Financial Analyst

Favorite book? Green Eggs and Ham Favorite musician or group? Frank SinatraFavorite movie? Caddyshack Celebrity lookalike? Jennifer Aniston, before she became hot Celebrity dream date? David LettermanIf you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Lou Holtz, George W. Bush, the PopeWhat’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the

name of love? Let’s just say it’s not exactly legal.You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says: “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? “Thanks, nice ass.” (Can I say that?)People who sign prenuptial agreements are Lucky to be getting married to someone who needs one.Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? I already have three. Just kidding. Only if his name is Gooch.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Think, “Wow, how much better do I look now?”What’s your favorite way to kill time? Driving rangeWhat’s your worst quality? I can’t lie. What’s your best quality? I can’t lie.

ALYCE JOHNSON , 50

Separated; two kids, John III, 26; Doug, 23; Human Resources Manager

Favorite book? Beach Music by Pat ConroyFavorite musician or group? Bruce Springsteen and the E Street BandFavorite movie? Tadpole Celebrity lookalike? Sigourney WeaverCelebrity dream date? George ClooneyIf you could have dinner with any three living people, who

would they be? Sean Connery, James Carville, Oprah Winfrey What job would you like to have for a day? Wine Vendor at Cakebread Cellars, Napa ValleyPeople who sign prenuptial agreements are Pessimists. You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Nothing; sometimes hideous can turn out to be funky and fun.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Surf the Net and dream of far away travels.What’s your favorite word? TransitionIf you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Duck Soup (zany!) When is the last time you cried? Yesterday afternoon (my 2­and­a­half­year­old grand­son didn’t want me to go home). What’s your worst quality? Too impulsive.What’s your best quality? Good listener.

DR. JAMI GRANT , 42 Single; two kids, Nadia, 21, Julian, 15; Director of ForensicStudies, University of Baltimore

Favorite book? Brave New World Favorite musician or group? Bruce SpringsteenFavorite movie? A Christmas StoryCelebrity lookalike? Candice Bergen (my students tell me)Celebrity dream date? Robert De Niro If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Rosa Parks, Dr. Benjamin Carson, and Lech WalesaWhat job would you like to have for a day? Supreme Court JusticeIf you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Purchase an 883 Harley Sportster and get my motorcycle license.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? I am a sworn officer of the fashion police and as such I am bound to uphold all fashion laws.Who are better drivers, men or women? Driving ability is not gender­based. That being said, women are better drivers. What’s your favorite way to kill time? Enjoying steamed crabs and ice cold beer with friends. What’s your worst quality? I am impatient. What’s your best quality? I am empathetic.

WHITNEY HANNON , 24

Single, no kids, Marketing Manager, The Maryland Science Center

Favorite book? Any of the Harry Potter series, or most recently How to Travel In Ireland For $60 a DayFavorite musician or group? Beastie Boys and Counting CrowsFavorite movie? (In a Bill Lumbergh voice) Yeah . . . I’m gonna have to say Office SpaceCelebrity lookalike? On a good day, the young chick from Beetle Bailey, on a bad day, the comic strip Cathy. Seriously, people have mentioned I resemble the girl from The Blair Witch Project.Celebrity dream date? The hometown boy, Mr. Edward Norton.If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Call NASA and schedule myself in for the next launch.Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? Only if it can read: “I’m with stupid.”What’s your favorite way to kill time? People stalk—uh, I mean watch. If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Dazed and ConfusedDo you believe in love at first sight? Does the human head weigh 8 pounds?When is the last time you cried? At one of my best guy friends’ weddings, or maybe it was the last time the Orioles won the World Series.What’s your best quality? My sarcastic humor.

MARCUS MACON , 27

Divorced, no kids, Pro at Suburban Golf Club

Favorite musician or group? UB40 Favorite movie? ArmageddonCelebrity lookalike? Freddie Prinze Jr. Celebrity dream date? Denise RichardsWhat job would you like to have for a day? King of EnglandWhat’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?I’m not the extreme type. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do?

Retire. And, of course, play golf.

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? I’m flattered. Absolutely.People who sign prenuptial agreements are Intelligent.Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other?Absolutely not. What’s your favorite word? Sketchy. Who are better drivers—men or women? Men. Because we don’t look in the mirror to put our makeup on. Do you believe in love at first sight? No. You don’t fall in love by looking at someone. Admiring beauty is not love. What’s your worst quality? Procrastination.What’s your best quality? There are so many! Ha! I guess I’m giving of my time.

CAROL E. MALONEY , 30

Single, no kids (one dog, 71/2), Sports Anchor/Reporter

Favorite musician or group? Stevie WonderFavorite movie? There’s Something about Mary Celebrity lookalike? Julia RobertsCelebrity dream date? Mike MyersWhat job would you like to have for a day? Food critic What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? I love skiing, but three years ago I picked up snowboard­ing and the guy started me out on blue runs. I followed him and was so sore I couldn’t raise my hands over my head for a week. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Rent Fells Point for the night.You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Give her/him the up­down, laugh, and hit the road.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Channel surfWhat’s your favorite word? Yes!Who are better drivers, men or women? Men, without question.If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? The Good, the Bad & the Ugly Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes, especially after a few cocktails.When is the last time you cried? Big girls don’t cry.What’s your worst quality? I’ve been told that it’s when I’m a bit late, but is it possible the whole world sometimes is a bit early? What’s your best quality? My independence.

KEVIN FRANCE, SINGLE GRAD STUDENT AT JOHNS HOPKINS. NO KIDS.

Favorite book? The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway Favorite musician or group? The Grateful Dead Favorite movie? Ferris Bueller’s Day Off Celebrity lookalike? Ashton Kutcher from That ’70s Show Celebrity dream date? Gwyneth Paltrow If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Kurt Vonnegut, Robin Williams, and Bill Clinton What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?

Shipping myself Fed Ex to surprise an ex­girlfriend on her birthday If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Buy my dad a Porsche

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says? “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? Blush, smile, then introduce myself. People who sign prenuptial agreements are Planning on getting divorced. What’s your favorite word? Nebulosity Who are better drivers—men or women? Confident women. They are assertive yet patient. When is the last time you cried? Last break­up What’s in the trunk of your car? Camping gear: tent, sleeping bag, etc.

MARTIN MARKS , 21

Single, no kids, Student

Favorite musician or group? Gah, so many! Right now, a close contest between Radiohead and Dismemberment Plan. Favorite movie? The Shining orThe Exorcist (I like scary flicks) Celebrity dream date? One of the Bush daughters, because they look like they know how to party.

If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?Linda Tripp, Monica Lewinsky, and Hillary Clinton, you know, just to get everything out there.What job would you like to have for a day?Dolphin trainer at National Aquarium. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do?I’d move out to Italy and start my own vineyard, inviting my writer friends to come stay out there as long as they wanted to. That, or buy lots and lots of pudding.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? As the son of a fashion designer, I’ve gained the important skill about finding some good out of a really bad outfit, e.g.—Tear the sleeves off and hand them a do­rag. Nah, clothes aren’t that important. What’s your favorite way to kill time?No joke, I translate papyri (ancient Egyptian written documents). As a Near Eastern Studies major, I’m focusing on Egyptology anyway, so I now do this instead of crossword puzzles. What’s your favorite word?Concupiscent. I saw it in a Wallace Stevens poem once, and it really stuck.

BRIAN MCKEW , 26 Single, no kids, CEO, Camden Group and Home Networks

Favorite book? Underworld by Don DeLillo Favorite musician or group? I have eclectic taste in music . . . Millencolin, Big Head Todd, Black Eyed Peas, and The Hives.Favorite movie? Tommy Boy Celebrity lookalike? Kevin BaconCelebrity dream date? Jessica Biel If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? The Pope, Bill Gates and George W. Bush.

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?Let’s just say I can’t put that in the magazine.If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? I’d get a hold of a good financial advisor then call my family and celebrate! Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? Only on my forehead.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Any opportunity I get to mountain bike.What’s your favorite word? Brobdingnagian Who are better drivers men or women? I’m the best driver of them all and that’s all that matters.Do you believe in love at first sight? Absolutely! What’s in the trunk of your car?Jimmy Hoffa.

TIMOTHY MITCHELL , 43

TIMOTHY MITCHELL , 43

Single, no kids, Attorney

Favorite book? Presumed Innocent Favorite movie? Liar Liar Celebrity lookalike?A combination of Bruce Willis and Michael J. Fox Celebrity dream date? Sandra BullockWhat job would you like to have for a day?Airline pilot What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?Snuck into a girlfriend’s office after hours to decorate it with streamers and flowers.If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Have a huge party for my friends and family and invite U2 for entertainment. People who sign prenuptial agreements are Trying to put divorce attorneys out of business.Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other?Yes, my arm could be twisted. What’s your favorite way to kill time? Surf the NetWhat’s your favorite word? Weekend! Who are better drivers, men or women?Neither. Have you been on the beltway lately?If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Groundhog DayDo you believe in love at first sight? Yes, absolutely. What’s your worst quality?Try to do too much at one time What’s your best quality? I’m a good listener

R. BRANDON MOLLETT , 26

Single, no kids, Teacher

Favorite book? Winter of Our Discontent by John Steinbeck Favorite movie?Caddyshack Celebrity lookalike? Edward Norton Celebrity dream date?Neve Campbell What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Fall in love in the first place If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Rip my shirt off and run around in a soccer­goal­like celebration

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? I would act like it happened to me all the time, then struggle to come up with something clever to say.People who sign prenuptial agreements are Missing the point. Who are better drivers—men or women? This is a trick question. Men, because I am one. If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Indiana Jones, because I know what it is I am looking for but I don’t know how to find it or where the hell it is. What’s in the trunk of your car?A lacrosse ball that’s been rolling around for a cou­ple of days driving me crazy, some clothes, running shoes, and . . . the spare.

JACQUELINE “J ACQIE ” D. MCWILLIAMS , 33

Single, no kids, Assistant Athletics Director for Internal Operations

Favorite book? Wake of the Wind by J. California CooperFavorite musician or group? Will Downing Favorite movie? Dirty DancingCelebrity lookalike? Some say Nia LongCelebrity dream date? Boris Kodjoe (Soul Food) What job would you like to have for a day? Dance and sing on Broadway

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Sang my favorite love songs on a tape (this was before CDs). If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Tithe what belongs to God.People who sign prenuptial agreements are Not committed.You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? I’d ask “What’s going on with your outfit?” and sug­gest that they change. That’s what friends are for. What’s your favorite way to kill time? Read a bookWho are better drivers, men or women? Depends on the situation. Overall, I hate to say it, but men. What’s in the trunk of your car? Spare tire, first­aid kit, CD changer, umbrella, and a portable lawn chair.What’s your worst quality? Impatience.What’s your best quality? I value relationships.

MICHELLE OWENS , 27

Single, no kids, Assistant State’s Attorney for Baltimore City and part­time Waitress at Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse

Favorite book? Oh the Places You Will Go by Dr. SeussFavorite musician or group? The Beatles Favorite movie? Urban CowboyCelebrity lookalike? Catherine Zeta­JonesCelebrity dream date? John Travolta What job would you like to have for a day? Baltimore City Circuit Court Judge

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Purchased a matching shirt and tennis shoes of my middle school crush. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Pay off my student loans You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? I’d say “I thought you were planning on wearing that cute little dress in your closet.” What’s your favorite way to kill time? Pleasure read in a bookstore What’s your favorite word? PlethoraWho are better drivers, men or women? MenIf you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? There’s Some­thing About Mary What’s your worst quality? I’m not very spontaneous.What’s your best quality? I’m dedicated.

DEAN ANDREW IACOVETTI , 25

Single, no kids, Nightclub Manager

Favorite book? Rich Dad, Poor Dad Favorite musician or group? Linkin ParkFavorite movie? It’s a tossup between Shawshank Redemption, The Usual Suspects, and Face Off Celebrity lookalike?Jamie Walters (Ray Pruitt from Beverly Hills 90210) and a little of Ricky MartinCelebrity dream date? Anna Kournikova What job would you like to have for a day?I would like to be a taste tester at Ben and Jerry’s.

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?Joined the mile high club! People who sign prenuptial agreements are Very smart. Don’t forget, I just graduated from UB Law School.

Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other?Too late (just kidding). Who are better drivers—men or women? Men because they have quicker reaction time.

If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Studio 54What s in the trunk of your car? Car cleaning materials

and golf clubs What’s your worst quality? I am a perfectionistWhat’s your best quality? I am a perfectionist

PAMELA PAULK , 48

Divorced, no kids, Vice President of Human Resources, Johns Hopkins Health System

Favorite book? The latest in the Lucas Davenport (John San­ford) or Dave Robicheaux (James Lee Burke) series.Favorite musician or group? Eric Clapton Favorite movie? MementoCelebrity lookalike? A petite Annette BeningCelebrity dream date? Tom Glavine (pitcher for the Atlanta Braves)

If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? the Dalai Lama, Muhammad Ali, Susan SarandonWhat’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Built a cabin on a lake in the woods completely by hand. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Buy a wonderful work of artPeople who sign prenuptial agreements are The people who won’t lose their cabin in the woods next time (see above).

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? I love my friends no matter what they wear. Now if it’s a girlfriend and the outfit makes her look fat—really fat—I’d suggest we rent a movie and order in. Friends don’t let friends look fat.Who are better drivers, men or women? Women, on a par 3.When is the last time you cried? I cry at almost every movie I see.

PATRICIA PHIPPS , A.K.A PATTI , 60

Divorced; three kids, Amy, 39, Andrew, 33, Nancy, 29; Travel Counselor

Favorite book? Bonfire of the Vanities Favorite musician or group? Chuck BerryFavorite movie? Gone With the WindCelebrity lookalike? Phyllis Diller after her face lift. I wish it were Linda Evans.Celebrity dream date? Sean Connery If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Mel Brooks, George Will, Artie DonovanWhat job would you like to have for a day? Queen of EnglandWhat’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Rode around in the hot sun in a golf cart (more than once).If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Change my phone numberYou’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says: “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? “You talking to me?!”People who sign prenuptial agreements are Smart.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Crossword puzzleWhat’s your favorite word? Eclectic If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? As Good As It Gets

MARY SCANLAN , 41

Divorced, kids: “a few . . . “, U.S. Coordinator, The Baraka School

Favorite book? Catcher in the Rye (I read it every summer!) Favorite musician or group? Fleetwood Mac, Garth Brooks, and I’m also a big fan of O’Malley’s March! Favorite movie? Blues BrothersCelebrity lookalike? Roz on FrazierWhat job would you like to have for a day? Queen, just so I could say “Off with your head!”

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Given birth. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Find a good­looking financial planner. Then it’s off to the Bahamas!People who sign prenuptial agreements are Getting married for the second time.Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? No, but I’d con­sider magic marker.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Hope we’re going to her hangout!If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Some Like it HotWhat’s in the trunk of your car? My ex.What’s your worst quality? My incredibly low tolerance for stupidity. Thankfully, I have a sense of humor. What’s your best quality? Probably my ability to be organized in utter chaos, yet remain flexible.

J.P. SHILLING , 30 Single, no kids, Personal Trainer and former Olympic Speed Skater

Favorite book? The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho Favorite musician or group?The Beatles Favorite movie? Forrest Gump Celebrity lookalike? You’ve got me! [editor’s note: Colin Farrell?] Celebrity dream date? Gwen Stefani If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Paul McCartney, Randy Johnson, Fox 45’s Jennifer Gilbert

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?I took a girlfriend to Maui—it was a surprise (that one backfired).If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do?Promise myself to stay who I am (while considering how many square feet my new house will be).

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? Turn around and follow her!What’s your favorite word? Trust Who are better drivers—men or women? Sorry ladies, but you make me want to kill myself when you’re behind the wheel. Too careful, too slow, or not paying attention at all. What’s in the trunk of your car?Crab steamer, rain gear, antifreeze, rolling golf balls What’s your best quality?Love to laugh

MARSHA SAMLAL , 30

Single, no kids, Realtor, Long & Foster

Favorite book? The Old Man and the Sea and Angela’s AshesFavorite musician or group? Groove Armada. Favorite movie? ScarfaceCelebrity lookalike? I don’t think I look like a celebrityCelebrity dream date? Paolo Maldini (Italian football player).If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?Chris Rock, Oprah, and Bono. What job would you like to have for a day? President of the

United States of America Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? Only if I were crazy.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Listen to music and dance. What’s your favorite word? You can’t print it.Who are better drivers, men or women? Men.If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? There’s Some­thing About Mary Do you believe in love at first sight? No What’s in the trunk of your car? A booster pak, washer fluid, Fix­A­Flat, and my folders.What’s your worst quality? I’m easy­going. What’s your best quality? I’m open­minded.

MATTHEW SMITH , 27

Single, no kids, Vice President, Matscot (gifts and novelty items)

Favorite book? Hide and Seek by James Patterson Favorite musician or group? OasisFavorite movie? Victory Celebrity lookalike? Noel from Felicity (Scott Foley)Celebrity dream date? Alyssa Milano If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Pele, Steve Jobs, Dave Matthews

What job would you like to have for a day? President What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? I’ve never been in love. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Charter a plane and fly to Vegas.What’s your favorite way to kill time? Play guitar. What’s your favorite word?“huh?” Who are better drivers—men or women?Men. They’re able to focus on more than one thing at the same time.If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Joe Vs. The VolcanoWhat’s in the trunk of your car? Samples (for work), soccer ball, my XM satellite antenna. What’s your worst quality? Stubbornness. What’s your best quality?I’m a nice guy.

FREDERICK BURKE JR. 36, SINGLE, NO KIDS. EMERGENCY MEDICINE TECHINICIAN.

Favorite book? Days Of Grace by Arthur Ashe Favorite musician or group?Luther Vandross Favorite movie? Remember the Titans Celebrity lookalike?DL Hughley Celebrity dream date? Janet JacksonIf you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?Colin Powell, Oprah Winfrey, and Bill CosbyWhat’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?

I’m too embarrassed to say.

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? It depends on who is saying it. People who sign prenuptial agreements are Cautious.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? LaughWhat’s your favorite way to kill time? Read Who are better drivers—men or women? Neither, it depends on the driver. If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be?

Love Jones What’s your worst quality? I can’t cook. What’s your best quality?My sense of humor

CHAD STEELE , 27

Single, no kids, Media Relations Manager, Baltimore Ravens

Favorite book? Life on the Color Line by Gregory Howard Williams Favorite movie?The Usual Suspects Celebrity lookalike? I have two. Rick Fox of the Lakers or Tony Gonzalez of the Kansas City Chiefs. Celebrity dream date?Vanessa Williams. I guess I would like to be Rick!

If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Jesse Jackson, President Bush, Muhammad Ali.

What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love?After a girlfriend and I decided we needed time apart, I decided I wanted to get back with her. I wrote a poem and went to her house and I played Brian McKnight in the background and recited the poem over and over until she came out. (Yes, it worked!)What’s your favorite word? Plethora Do you believe in love at first sight?Yes I do. It happened with my parents. When is the last time you cried?Three months ago when my niece was born. What’s your worst quality?My friends say I’m too clean. My house has to be spotless. Dishes put away. What’s your best quality? I think I’m a people person. I’ve lived all over the world so I can adapt to many situations. I like talking to all different kinds of people to find out what their lives are about.

KEREM ULKEN , 27

Single, no kids, Graphic Artist, Painter, DJ/Producer

Favorite musician or group? It’s hard to say. I listen to everything. Favorite movie?The Hairdresser’s Husband People who sign prenuptial agreements are Not truly in love. Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other?Nope. Well, maybe after I turn 60. What’s your favorite way to kill time?Make music. What’s your favorite word? Double­dip

Who are better drivers, men or women? No offense, but men. Because driving is purely physical and most women have talents in different areas that men don’t. It’s a perfect balance. If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be?Any movie that had a lot of car crashes in beautiful open fields while the cars are only in second gear. Is this a run­on? Do you believe in love at first sight?Nope. But I do fall in love at first sight. What’s in the trunk of your car? A blanket, an old car stereo, candle holder, design books, flyers, spare tire, old laserdisc movies, extension cord . . . can you solve the riddle? What’s your worst quality? I give up easily when I’m hurt or disappointed by a loved one. What’s your best quality?I get God’s speed when I bond with a loved one.

SHAWN EUGENE STORER , 28

Single, no kids, Assistant Conductor, Baltimore Chamber Orchestra

Favorite book? Dante’s Inferno Favorite musician or group? Baltimore Chamber Orchestra! Favorite movie? Singles, Zoolander, The Red Violin, Eyes Wide ShutCelebrity lookalike? Anthony Edwards Celebrity dream date? Debra Messing If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be?Tori Amos, Anne Rice, Tim Burton What job would you like to have for a day?Music Director, New York Philharmonic (for more than a day) What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the name of love? Risked answering these questions honestlyWould you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? Probably not their name, but maybe something they designed

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Hope they are not thinking the same thing about my outfit What’s your favorite way to kill time? Listening to live musicWhat’s your favorite word? Melancholy Do you believe in love at first sight? YesWhat’s your worst quality? Self­conscious What’s your best quality? Willingness to make a fool out of myself despite my worst quality.

MICHAEL STRÜBIN , 35

Single, no kids, Program Manager at a nonprofit foundation

Favorite book? There are so many . . . Garcia Marquez’s Love in the Time of Cholera; I also like Malcolm Lowry’s Under the Volcano Favorite musician or group?Peggy Lee (I am stuck in the 20th Century) Favorite movie? AmadeusCelebrity lookalike? Shrek Celebrity dream date? Rosario Dawson

What job would you like to have for a day? Marc Steiner’sYou’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? Pinch myselfPeople who sign prenuptial agreements are Practical.You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Tease him/her for the rest of the nightWhat’s your favorite way to kill time? Read old issues of the New YorkerWho are better drivers—men or women? The bigger the car, the worse the driver, no matter the sex. If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be?Slacker Do you believe in love at first sight?I believe in chemistry. And if there is none the moment you spot each other across the room, it will not kick in.What’s your worst quality? Stubbornness What’s your best quality?Persistence (which is actually the same, except you win).

NED WALTON , 29

Single, no kids, Recruiter, Spherion Professional Recruiting

Favorite book? John Irving’s A Prayer For Owen Meany (It took me two years to read.)Favorite musician or group? Widespread Panic/Grateful Dead Celebrity lookalike?Pete Sampras Celebrity dream date? Pete Sampras’ wife If you could have dinner with any three living people, who would they be? Bob Dylan, George W. Bush, Hugh Hefner What’s the most extreme thing you’ve ever done in the

name of love? I’ve never been in love (honestly). If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do? Ned Walton = Cadillac ownerWould you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? My buddy Trevor got a tattoo of “Kacy” on his buttocks. Last weekend, he married “Kim.” I would have to say the answer is No.

You pick up your friend for a night on the town and he or she comes to the door in a hideous outfit. What do you do? Run screaming into the night!Who are better drivers—men or women? Women—I could never drive and put makeup on at the same time. If you could compare your dating life to a movie, what would it be? Gone in 60 Seconds Do you believe in love at first sight?I believe in lust at first sight. What’s in the trunk of your car? My last girlfriendWhat’s your worst quality? My back hair What’s your best quality? My personality

GRAHAM WEBER , 24

Single, no kids, Chef, Marriott Waterfront Hotel

Favorite book? The Dictionary, I’m always mispelling stuff.Favorite musician or group? Neil Diamond and ABBA Favorite Movie? Top GunCelebrity dream date? Jessica Biel What job would you like to have for a day?My job. I can honestly say I love my job, the people I work with, and the product we put out.

You’re walking down the street and a member of the opposite sex says, “Hey, nice bod!” What’s your reaction? “Thank you, wanna take it for a ride?!” What is your favorite word? YES. Everyone loves to hear that word in most all applications. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do?Well if it were a $10 scratch­off, probably nothing, but if it was the Big Kahuna, I would give half to the Christians Children’s Fund and the other half I would use to travel the world over until every last dime was spent! Sorry children, I’m only human. Who are better drivers—men or women? I am a really bad driver. However, I think my gender as a whole are better overall drivers. Men are less likely to get freaked out when something unexpected happens.Would you ever get a tattoo bearing the name of your significant other? As long as it wasn’t something cheesy like a heart. When was the last time I cried?There is no way I am telling you that! What’s in the trunk of your car? It would take less time if you asked what isn’t in the trunk.